March 12, 2018

Trust During Transitions

Featured image for “Trust During Transitions”

Our leader is leaving.  Uh oh!  What now?  What’s going to happen here?

Transitions tend to be times of heightened anxiety.  We don’t know exactly what is going to happen.  Now, some people get an adrenaline rush thinking about such a scenario, others want to run away from that situation as fast as possible.  And, some simply see a transition as a season to “get through.”  No matter how you think about transitions, it is quite obvious that what will be helpful in a time of heightened anxiety is a healthy dose of trust.

Some of you are thinking, “No kidding!”  But how do we build trust?

I believe Patrick Lencioni is right on when he writes that the way to combat a lack of trust is to model vulnerability (see Lencioni’s The Five Dysfunctions of a Team).  I said I thought he was right, I didn’t say I necessarily like it.  Being vulnerable is often uncomfortable, but it is important.

Not surprisingly, Jesus leads the way in this.  When I think about Jesus modeling vulnerability, I think about Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane.  Jesus prays, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will” (Matt. 26:39).  Have you ever wondered how we know that Jesus prays that prayer?  Jesus is all alone when He prays that prayer, so it must be that Jesus tells His disciples.  If I were Jesus (and obviously, I am not), I would be thinking that I can’t let anyone know I am struggling like this.  After all, think about some of the statements that Jesus has made: “For I have come down from heaven not to do my will, but the will of Him who sent me” (John 6:38).  “The Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many” (Matt. 20:28).  I would be thinking that I need to be strong, or at least appear strong.

But that is not how Jesus operates.  He shares His biggest struggles with His followers.  And doesn’t that inspire trust in Jesus?  I really do believe it when the writer to the Hebrews reminds us that Jesus has been tempted in every way we are.  I am more apt to approach the throne of grace with confidence because of the way Jesus lives His life (see Hebrews 4:14-16).

What does this look like for us?  How might we model being vulnerable?

I have found that one of the powerful questions I can ask in a time of transition (other times, too) is, “Of what are you afraid?”  And then I can model vulnerability by offering my answer first.  Before I expect other leaders to answer, I share some of the things that I fear.

For example, right now, I have a fear that you will not have read this far in this blog.  I’m afraid that you will be thinking, “It really isn’t worth reading what Lokers writes.”

So, if you have read this far, thank you!  I hope this will help us all take one step toward greater vulnerability which will help build trust.  And trust is always important, especially in times of transition.

  • Breaking Church Addictions

    Believe it or not, church addictions are fairly common. They are probably more common than we would like to admit. GO HERE.

  • Burnout or Breakout

    How can church leaders be effective without sacrificing their marriage, their family, or their health in the process? How can good leaders get stuck churches unstuck without becoming another casualty? GO HERE.

  • Faith Based

    A Biblical, Practical Guide to Strategic Planning in the Church . GO HERE.